Jerusalem, Israel – A couple has sought divorce just on the fourth day after their wedding.
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The couple arrived at the Rabbinical court asking for divorce, with the husband arguing that his wife refused to live in his parents house and the wife claiming that he had promised to rent an apartment and live on their own.
The newly weds apparently also had some financial disputes as the wife claimed that she should get a larger share of the wedding gifts and that the husband's family gave cheap gifts.
The rabbis, who failed to convince the couple to reconsider their decision, granted the wife her wish and gave both a Get (divorce papers). [indiatimes]
pupa man you r in a way right but from the other side we could learn from other cases to prevent ouerselfs from problems to oquer in the futre, we do not meen by talking about it to knock one side more then the other or taking a side, cuse there is an old word that by every divorce there is three sides,his,hers, and the truth,what is, that it was bashert it should hapen, and i think that there was no conection between these 2, cuse if they would like each other, nothing is a problem, they would have worked something out like it says “ahavoh mekalkeles es hoshura” that meens that when there is love he could be considerd the crazyist person on da street or she the uglyist or…….. but one thing brings them together l.o.v.e.(ahhavo) im not saying he/she is got to be a “shtikle menctch” not a “bahaymeh” but the truth is even “bahaymes have there “zivug”.
What no gifts from your family?
This “cheap” piece of garbage?
This is not what I got married for.
I’m outta here!
why are we discussing someone else’s life? this is utterly direspectful to the couple that just went through this terrible disaster!imagine having something of your life being posted on here and everyone writing their comments!
i think this should be discussed before, not as a surprise for the new wife,,,if anything move into her old house, so she comfortable with her mother, not with the mother-in-law! YOU GO GIRL!!!
anon 2:05
In Israel most weddings are shared 50%- 50%
We lived with my in-laws. That was how it was done a generation ago. We saved our money and I learned to cook like my husband’s family.
I know of a number of marriages recently that have been annulled during the Sheva Brachas, but in these cases it was because one or the other of the couple were found out to be not Jewish during the week of celebrating!!
Crazy times we are living in.
who cares if hes chassidish or litvish , explain what you mean.
I looked at the calendar to check it wasn’t April 1.
Divorce is no joke, but these reasons are ridiculous.
I’ve been married 30+ years…my husband’s family were so cheap moths flew out of their wallets. And that’s when they had to open them which was almost never. So what??? We worked hard, saved, & have a nice life. Our children had everything within reason, but they also worked (babysat, tutored etc) for “extras.”
Mind you, much as I liked my shvigger, I wouldn’t have lived in her house. I’d have killed my husband first!! Less paperwork & more final than a Get.
To Aryeh Dereh (???) your comment made me smile!! Not nice, but funny!! :))
Lastly, can/will her parents sue his for the cost of the wedding?
Why do you assume that the chosson is Litvish ? Maybe he is Chassidish ? Or maybe a Sefardi ? Maybe a Yemenite ?
Even if you decide to mooch off your parents, arent the parents /inlaws smart enough to realize that a newly married couple should have thier own private domain? What`s this world coming to?? Hashem yerachem.
I bet the Choson did not ask his Rosh yeshiva about this issue before he got married. He only asked whats important to him , like how much should i ask from the prespective inlaws to marry thier daughter or how many years support KUMPT mere because i`m such a BIG FAT Masmid after all. And the fact that i don`t show up to Daven shachris is over looked because im the biggest Laden in BMG etc.
This is what happens when you get married before you are old enough to understand responsibilty. Get a job for heavens sake so u can indeed rent an apt. Why are you mooching off the parents/inlaws.??
he should have given her a few well deserved whacks, sefardic style!
Would teach her not to talk back to her husband,and learn to respect& obey.
listen the rabunim in isreal are not like in ameica that when there is problems by a couple thay stand in the side and are just watching it like somebody would watch a baseball game from 5 year olds playing, thay are trying evrything posible to keep them together and if thay let him give a get most probbley there was nothing wat to do about there marrige…..
i know of a couple that was also divorced during sheva because of the very controlling behavior the husband acted towards his wife.
It didn’t take too long after (a little over a year) that she remarried.
Anonymous said…
i am sure there was no pre marutal councliing on this one
November 20, 2007 9:13 AM
They proably didn’t have much in the way of marital counseling either, although I suspect you were referring to pre-marital counseling.
A get and a couple of pills is what i would have given them both.
How in the world does the India Times get on to this story while no local papers report on it ?
This couple should have come to America for the Shana Rishona, to be away from the Parents!
i am sure there was no pre marutal councliing on this one
Sounds like better now, hope no kids arrive.
I work and I am generally not in favor of the many years vacation for the young couple while he is sitting in Yeshava BUT I stand in awe at the simple but effective policy of spending the first year in Israel, AWAY FROM BOTH SETS OF PARENTS, it is the true way to yazov es aviv v… and build a bayis neemon.
Wow…why did he get married if he still wants to live with his parents?! Talk about being cheap!
the right thing was done
Better now before someone tells him to demand half a million in cash for it.
good idea, better now then later with kids